Bought a book today called 'getting back together' - how to reconcile with your partner and make it last.
I read that one a few years back. I believe it's cited as one of the sources in DR. I liked it. Felt very peaceful reading it.
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Over the last 6 months he hardly contacted me at all. Now he contact me so much that sometimes i want to shout 'leave me alone, give me space'.....
xh and I have the same pattern. I am less lonely 'divorced' from him than when we were married. I am not sure what that is about...
My expectations?
His expectations?
Change in communication patterns?
Just some things to think about...
You are making progress. You sound better. That's the most important thing. You need to figure out how to be you, how to satisfy you, before you can tackle the R thing.
Oh...my guess is...he just wants to spend a lot of time with the kids. xh is the same way with our little boy. Chalk it up to him being a good dad, and encourage it.
I believe it's cited as one of the sources in DR. I liked it. Felt very peaceful reading it.