He is planning an affair

[HOPEFULinCALI]

My husband had previously been heartbroken by our separation. Then he went back to Greece, reconnected with an old girlfriend, and made a 180. Now he does not want to work things out.

When I initially confronted him he admitted to nothing. As part of the DB plan I decided not to bring it up again. But it is killing me inside. Everyday he seems to be getting deeper and deeper into this relationship. I am 100% sure that he will have an affair when he goes back this Christmas without me. He has already gotten a hotel, invited her and expressed that he can't wait to sleep with her.

I can't confront him or her and I am working very hard at my 180. I am struggling with not pushing affection on him. For the past few weeks I have not. However I don't know how to bring back "the spark" with all this space I am supposed to give him. Anyone successfully brought back "the spark". I am sure many have been in this situation.

Hopeless