Thank you all for your advice.

I am doing it because I really feel like this is my next step in moving on with my life. As you know I am coming up on 1 year with no physical contact and I really would like to at least have some adult companionship...not as much as GD though! LOL...just razzing ya buddy.

I don't think the old friend is "the guy" for that but would be a good practice date. See how it feels to be out with someone.

My young Mr. Statham would like to be more than friends but really wants to see that I am totally free of my bonds. I can see it from his POV...I am several years older, probably knocked his socks off and he can see he may fall for me and get his heart broken if I went back to the H for whatever reason...plus he has this whole moral thing about waiting until I am fully divorced before getting involved. All I can say is that he has his head on strait and uses the big one not the little one! But if it were up to me I would probably jump his bones tomorrow...again not a good idea and not what I need right now.

I will keep you posted. I may end up chickening out!


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.