woo, so sorry to see you in this situation. it mirrors my situation very closely. i too completely feel apart. not in front of w, but by myself. all she saw was my anger and hurt, for the first two weeks. thank the lord i found this website, and read dr at least 5 times. you must have this book ingrained into you psyche. you are doing exactly what you need to do. dont be too hard on yourself. my wife also told me i was a good husband and father. i know i made mistakes to help contribute to the situation. but my wife, like yours, needs time and space to figure their feelings out. dont crowd her, i know its hard. she will feel much more comfortable around you if you dont push.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
