I wasn't using the kids as an excuse: I really couldn't hang out. What I mean by pulling back is I'm flirting with him a lot less, and I'm consciously thinking about him as a friend and not a possible romantic interest. There'll be plenty of time for that later, with him or someone else
This is what is happening already with me but for my H. I am just seeing him as a friend now and feel like I am losing interest... and just plain feels weird.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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