WAW hasn't walked yet, but emotionally dead

[LostInMN]

Oh sure, sandi, scare me why don't ya?

I'm doing exactly what you just described; my wife has asked me for years to change my diet, start to exercise, drink less, and all sorts of things that I never did until now that the bomb has been dropped. Of course, all of these things are good for me, make me feel better about myself, will make me a better person long term regardless of what happens with our relationship, etc. Now I'm worried that she'll resent me doing it now instead of in the past when she thought it might make a difference. Oh well, I can't change how she takes it, all I can do is take care of myself and pray for the best results.