As far as H being too far gone, no one knows. We cannot even guess what God's desires are for you. I will say He wanted your M to be joyous but He can't force your H to come back home. He can make it uncomfortable and have little pleasure for your H but He won't force your H to go back home. I cannot even guess God's timetable and I personally don't want to force God to send my W back home before she is ready. My W is too messed up to come back home right now.
You are so right about this. I wouldnt want my H back in the state he is in right now either, but I just pray God will work on him.
Heck, my H is thinking about things, working things out in his mind, and acting as if he's moving back toward the marriage, but even I don't want him back right now either. He's getting closer, but he's still not ready. He knows it, I know it and neither of us wants to move until he is.
In the meantime I just keep praying for God to keep working on him. I know he is. I see if everyday.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
