I Don't Care Anymore

[LL44]

Mark, I would have totally thought she would have said the D word too. Wow, that's great ONLY because even if she is thinking D, she is still putting the kids first. Extra money? Not for her, for the kids. At least we have spouses that haven't up and abandoned their own children. I am thankful for that.

And please do not jump for joy... I am not. There is a lot to work through, and, because of my level of detachment, the expectations that I have regarding what it will take for reconciliation may be more than she is willing to take on.

I think of this every single day.

Hope you are having a good morning!

[Rob1231]

Hi Mark,

That sounds a LOT like my W's repeated declarations that she would be moving out "next month" - and the day never came.

You're right on track - keep up the good work. Fingers and toes crossed for you!

[LL44]

Rob, I occasionally get those threats. Sometimes I want to yell "Go already!!".

[Rob1231]

Rob, I occasionally get those threats. Sometimes I want to yell "Go already!!".

I found it much more effective to silently think to myself "So, what's stopping you?"

[SallyM]

nope, not jumping for joy, but interesting all the same. very interesting.

[LL44]

Rob, yep.

[fightingirish]

Mark,

Alien W coming out again? It must be really crazy in that mind of hers..

Make up your mind woman!!

have a good day

tal

[Ohio_Mark]

Morgan!!!! Great to hear from you!! Hope all is well. I have not had the opportunity to visit your thread. I will try to get to it today.

TAL!!! Glad to see you too!

and lwb... always good to see you.

Rob, only the ladies get a friendly greeting.... sorry...

OK Rob, seriously, thanks for the input. It's like wife is a walking zombie now. Not sure where to go... I mean, she's cheerful on the outside, but inside... there's quite a storm brewin'

[Larrynarry]

You know... I wonder if we could turn this into a sitcom...

Actually... I'd like to have a secret film crew and then have the audience vote who the "biggest loser" is.



Good for you Mark.. I understand the no jumping for joy.

Stay of execution perhaps? Thanks Governor.

[saffie]

Just wanted to say Hi

Saffie