How did you tell your X that you filed?

[JMC]

Thanks Alamogirl. She actually returned my call this am and we plan to meet this Sunday, at which time I hope to discuss this matter in more detail. I plan to present it to her in a way that will hopefully allow for the least amount of animosity.

I still can not believe we are in this position, but I firmly believe she is in classic MLC and I realize she has to proceed on her own journey.

I plan to act strong, GALing and act 'as if', for I would still like a reconciliation (many of my friends think I am nuts, but they are not in my shoes). I firmly believe that she will one day regret her actions.