Detaching is a scary process. It is scary because as you detach you wonder if you are letting go too much. It is scary because you may feel like you are allowing your feelings for them to die.
Unfortunately, I think this is where I am at. I don't feel anything positive for him anymore...it is now about anger,resentment and utter disgust at who he has become and I have no interest in him at all. Perhaps I will detach enough to not have THOSE feelings...
For now, I am working on me...and trying not to get caught up in his drama...I don't think he will come back anymore...I think he is too far gone...and I will accept that as the will of God and move forward with my life.
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
