It's odd.. if I really go back and think about things, she only seems to gravitate towards me when I react with anger. Not sure why. I also don't get how we can have a pleasant exchange and then she drops the walls.
The women/men thing makes sense to me. Women typically start an EA and basically make the other person their soul mate. I can't remember the exact phrase, but it was something like they are "mirrored" by the other person. It's all fake. By the time something physical does occur, there is so much more invested that it's hard to break off.
Men tend to be more physical..
I know my W is in this emotional spot. Good goonie goo goo's. There is a quiz in a few of the sections.. my W flunked both of them so far.
She's running around with his hooded zip up sweatshirt. It has his companies initials on it.
How High School is that?
Also bummed to see that MIL is full of crap (which I knew she was) and is basically going to side with her D to make sure she loves her.
Thanks for the support!! Say your D needs to grow up and then help her live her immature life. Great job!!
