Wow, I'm afraid your T is a quack, she actually said it would be good to see other people?? WTH??? find a new T and soon, I thought the long intervals where bad to begin with but, wow, the "seing other people" really confirms that your T is overpaid.
You need a new one, and MC if your H is still willing should be weekly. I got the best MC in the world, he is a pastoral councelor and I thank God for his insight (just came from a session btw) Always goal oriented and soft spoken, hope you find a good T hon)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.