From how I read it he thinks you know these things because you have been snooping. Maybe this was all a test to see if you had changed your ways. Perhaps you should forward the emails to him that OW sent to you so that he can see what started all this off. At least that way he will get to see what a conniving b!tch this OW is and he may understand some of what you are going through. If you don't tell him why he will just think you don't trust him and were checking up on him. I really cannot see that you can lose out by doing this but you may gain from it.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
