morgan, that is correct. H is slacking. He lets them fall asleep in our/my bed, then I have asked him to move them to their beds later. If I move them at 2am, they totally wake up and want to stay. I don't fight because I just want sleep. lol But if he would move them in their deep sleep (early on in the night), they would be totally fine. I haven't said anything yet, because I don't think he is deliberately ignoring my requests, he just falls asleep at night (works 4am-6pm basically 4 days a week) and then only wakes up when I open the garage door.
And yes, he removed everything down to the waterproof (phew!) mattress pad and comforter and remade the entire thing. I appreciated this, he could have just left the stripped bed, or even the mess for me to clean up.
H is slacking. He lets them fall asleep in our/my bed, then I have asked him to move them to their beds later. If I move them at 2am, they totally wake up and want to stay. I don't fight because I just want sleep. lol But if he would move them in their deep sleep (early on in the night), they would be totally fine. I haven't said anything yet, because I don't think he is deliberately ignoring my requests, he just falls asleep at night (works 4am-6pm basically 4 days a week) and then only wakes up when I open the garage door. 