Glad the emails are cordial, but I get ya on the whole thing. Of course, you would prefer the emails to be cordial, but its not what you want. What you want isn't in front of you right now.

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everything is oh so wonderful for him isn't it? he gets the girl he loves, everything else falls nicely into place for him. all is oh so accomodating


You have to remember this is only what you see, what you speculate. You have seen proof (H's appearance at times, and his crying bouts) that he is nowhere near happy. Selfish? Yes. Happy? I doubt it.

Sorry about the colds, hope your day goes well.

PS: I was so upset yesterday because D3 wet my bed and H had to remove my new flannel sheets and wash them. My boring old cotton sheets were soooo cold last night. \:\)