Quote: I realized that one of the things that I yearn for with H. is to feel "needed" by him.
I do understand what you are saying. I suspect, Sage, that you provide many things to your H that you don't realize he "requires." I kind of feel the same way about my W, and I do know that there are things I do for her that she would miss otherwise. I think that's one of the reasons your H stuck around (even during the A), and I believe, is the same reason my W stuck around during her "wanderings." In essence, we were feeding some of those "love languages."
Quote: An important note to me is that H. may need me in a thousand different ways that I do not recognize.
