Thanks for the hugs and prayers Phoenix. Really. Right back at ya.
Peaceful--I agree, no going back to the old ways, and eh, I think I'll just keep getting better and better. I'm glad for the strength born of the trauma--it's already helping me in other areas of my life.
I am realizing (finally) that just because guilt or disapproval is thrown at me, I don't have to accept it and carry it. I can choose to drop it and love freely--if others resent me, that's their burden to carry.
P.S. I have a gorgeous D6, an adorable S3, and a truly sweet D1. They make every day worth living (even when they've driven me to my limits!).
I'm glad for the strength born of the trauma--it's already helping me in other areas of my life. 