Phoenix--I'm so sorry you are having to suffer because of W's issues. It's ironic how we humans can think *we've* done everything required (when we really have no idea of the beams of our eyes) and expect others to do the hard work. Pretty crappy when you're the 'other' person. I have no doubt that you are often used for being a nice guy...I'm the same way.
What do you think would happen if one day you just said, "OK W, you can have what you want...here's your separation...?" (Not that I'm suggesting it, but I'm interested to see what you think.)
Keep focusing on the positives--you are walking the path you need to walk for whatever reason. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
Vent all you want Phoenix--I hope you managed to get some sleep and that today goes as smoothly as possible.