Mr.IC and I had a nice talk about you last night and how difficult it must be for you right now. IC's got a lot of respect for you as do I. I don't know if you used some of that kickboxing background on him
I know it's hard, but I agree, try to let go of the negative things from the past. I think your husband will sense the positive attitude and it will make him realize that "yes, yes I'm lucky..I've got myself one hot red head "
Just thought I would drop in here and return the favor. Not totally up to speed on your sitch, but so far I think your on the right track. Ever since college I have watch military families and wondered how they ever survive it. My hat is off to you.
The whole idea of diverting you negative thoughts is exactly right. So far it seems to be having the exact result that you desire, stick with it. Mr Red seems to be finally coming around, congratulations.
Had a rough weekend, but worked through it and am feeling lots better, mentally & physically.
H is really stressed @ work right now and talking on the phone, his tone was just "off." I just simply asked if he was alright, didn't say 'is anything going on' or anything.
I finally thought it all through and am still pounding it into my brain that H has absolutely no reason to cheat again. He and I both know how much we love each other and how good we have it as a partnership and as a family. I know he will not do anything to jeopardize that again. I think I'm just getting really antsy for him to finally be home for good so that we can put everything into motion and just BE again.
41 days until he does get to come home for a month Can't wait.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
I am glad that things are looking up and you're feeling better.
You're right, forget about the negative past and countdown the days. 39 days and a wakeup?
He's a lucky guy to have such a great RHW waiting at home.
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory
I have not heard from you in a while. But I see that you've started the countdown I've got it marked on my calendar and fully expect some detailed updates come December 17th
Hope all is going well with you. How is the pain now? I hopes it's better. OK, I gotta run..this crazy thing called WORK !!
Since yesterday was Veterans day, I just wanted to take a minute and tell you thanks again. They couldn't do it w/o support from women like you.
Beside every soldier is an incredible woman.
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Can't wait.