Quoting KAW: How bout a little friendly competition between the two of you, playful ... a game of pool, bowling, darts, racquet ball, the arcade, bingo ... something that can be fun for the both of you.
KAW -- These are great suggestions! One thing that definitely works for H and me is social stuff together. We ended up going to see a movie and I think that eased the tension some. We've been talking about going out to play pool so sounds like a plan for next week!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.