I sort of agree with H. Go dark and see what happens. Otherwise you WILL only get accused of snooping again. IF the emails came to you without any snooping on your part then maybe I would forward them BUT no talk about the gaming site etc.
Luv, I know it's hard but try to just carry on without getting angry. If he doesn't come home when he is meant to then you know it is all lies but maybe OW is being a bi!tch scorned. Your H thought she would make waves. Wait and see. I know this is hard honey but please wait and see- let's face it, there's not a lot else you can do but don't let the kids see what you are going through.
How much money did you give him? You did your budget - you know you can survive without him. Wiat and find out if he really is a scumbag and then if he really is ditch the b*st*rd.
((((((HUGS))))))) Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength