Wish I had some very deep thoughts for you, but today I can only send you hugs and prayers. It really hurts when the part of your life that should be the best part is your worst part. The snooping thing doesn't work, I feel I would rather go with the I don't care any more. If they are going to do something, they will do it. No matter what we do or say, they have their choices to make and their decisions to deal with. Don't blow away all the hard work you have done, just to fall into old traps.
