Hardly faking it anymore: Puddle's third thread

[Heimlich]

Yeah, but thankfully it's not about you." It was about the kids. Still is.

Hey, Puddle. Sounds like things are going pretty well. For some reason, out of everything I read/skimmed throughout today, the line above jumped out at me.

I am definately down with trying for the kids. However, and I almost hate to type this, do you think you can really and truly be happy with your H? From what you've written, I think you can. I primarily say that because of the emotional honesty/openness issue. If you can learn to open up to your H (providing, of course, that he eventually turn around), it looks from the outside looking in that you probably could build a good life together.

Still . . .

Anyway, just a quick thought and one that I hope doesn't put the brakes on the flirting and the sexy undies (mmmmmmmmmmmm).

Best,

BD