Yeah, that's the one I have trouble with. "I didn't want this to happen. I wasn't looking for anything. If you did something to keep me here it never would have happened."

In a sense, it's true - but the A is never excusable. As I've told my W (who is not the greatest communicator in the world), I can only work with what I am given. If I'm told things are great and that I must projecting if I'm asking about the state of things, why would I think that we're in crisis mode?


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Me: 39/W: 37
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EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07