Let Go and Let God (or whatever your higher power is).
Lots and lots of people there have a real struggle with this; we are the control freaks of the world, it seems. It is good to hear the struggles and attempts to understand from others. A lot like here.
I heard from another who is a master at detachment--almost too detached. She told the group that she could go months, years, pretending that the problem doesn't exist at all, even when there were actions that could be taken.
Too sides to the co-dependent coin, my H and I.
Many said I sounded so much better tonight. I agree. The hills and the valleys of the coaster ride seem to be leveling off...