If his eyes are still dead, ignore everything he says and does. He is in no means ready or rational.
Hang in there, you WILL get through this. You are an amazing woman.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11