Update: I want to Salavage my Marriage

[PhD_ChrisD]

Thanks Bill and Mark for your kind words and encouragement. I really thought things were taking an uptick and now I have an OM to deal with. She swore to me last Monday that she has been faithful, misses me, etc. Told me everything I wanted and needed to hear. I really don't know if I believe that or not.

You are right about appearing weak. I just need to be strong and hang in there. I know she is hurting and trying to fill a void. Surely she knows the right thing to do is fix our marriage.

Best,
--Chris