When you say no to champagne....

[sage]

Sage, I for one am with you on NOT being okay with your H working on a full time, ongoing basis where OW works.

I was thinking about your dillemma and Dr. Phil's face came to mind. You DO know what he would say to your H right? "WHAT are you thinking??? That your W should be okay knowing you're seeing this ow every day at work...GET REAL!"

You've got Dr. Phil down pat SB. Thanks for the laugh! (And good advice)

This is going to be very trying for you (is H taking the consulting gig for sure? How long will it last?). H may be on the lookout for signs of "irrationality" and "weakness" or whatever on your part.

Yah, he's definitely taking it tho' he did say yesterday that he wouldn't if it really bothered me. It should only be a few days. I don't know when it's going to start but I'm guessing some time this week.

What to do? Act as if (there's zip going on there, H is fully trustworthy)? And come on here to vent? Do more stuff for yourself?

Yes, yes and yes. This will be me honing my DB skills!

You know we're here for you Sage!

Shiny

I do know that! And thank you for it!

Sage