You are banned for the divorce board, young lady. Banned, I say. Now, go to your room.
Ok, seriously though, don't overwhelm yourself for something you aren't anywhere near. As time goes by, anything can change. No, I am not trying to pump you up with "H might come back", but he really might. Plus, as the anger wears off, maybe you all could actually do mediation and minimal court time. You are reading ugly stories from very hurt people. You aren't there yet. Don't push yourself.
