You seem to be doing well keep it up. Be patient these things can take a long time. Its good that you are acknowldeging your faults and trying to work on them. Like you I was not affectinate towards my wife read the 5 Love Languages by Chapman it may give you more insight.


Me - 34
W - 33
S - 5
D - 4
M - 14 years
Bomb 1 Dec 06
Bomb 2 Aug 07
Separated - Aug 07
WAW Renting own place - Dec 07