Mixed signals - catfan's continual saga part???

[FaithfulH]

Catfan,

Things seem to be going great! Keep doing what you're doing...giving your W lots of space. Your words bring back memories of what happened right before the big reconciliation day in our sitch! Obviously your focus on becoming a better YOU is drawing your W back. And the best part?....you seem so grounded....that these changes were made for YOU....

The only caution....WHEN your W is ready to jump in with both feet...keep giving her as much space as she needs. My biggest challenge?....to avoid smothering my W. This still amazes me because I know that there are women who want to be smothered but my W isn't one of them. I guess there is a fine line between lavishing your affection on your S and becoming needy. I think I wrote that whole last paragraph mostly for ME...but, think about it if you want. Take care, Catfan!