I won't be able to check in for a week... we are off tomorrow morning to go across country, close on the house, pack it up and bring it back in a big, BIG, truck.
The moving thing, doncha know, no computer access unless I sneak away to an internet cafe while he is loading the truck. Bad DB-ing, bad. LOL.
I'm taking that print out of the "nuggets" you compiled on the peaceful one's thread to keep me centered no matter what adversity we face. Old friends who all want to kill him, 20 years of memories to sort out and pack up... a letter I found from "her" 4 months ago that I stashed in our top dresser drawer and have to get to first, lol.
Heh, no problem. We are tougher than we look! Thanks for being there for me. Now listen to your own self, girl. You want him to feel safe enough to go forward, to work on this and go back to this C until he works through it enough to forgive himself and move on with you and your family in peace. (((Cat))) gotta go, H is home.