Update: I want to Salavage my Marriage

[Bill_S]

Ive gotten the same....
She texts alot and cell phone calls. Overheard things I wish I didnt. Snooped alot too. The only option is to let it go. If it bothers you do whatever you have to do to deal with it...as long as she doesnt see you crumble. The weaker we look, the needier we become the less they want us. They look at these scumbags as someone who is strong. Its someone who will fill the hole but deep down they know it wont. But they keep going because, like my wife told me "I dont know what else to do."

Its true. As confused and hurt as we are, they are just as bad. The problem is....when we are on the receiving end they HIDE IT WELL!!!. But you will see signs. They cant hold up a crumbling wall forever.

Dont know your sitch yet but mark is right. What goes around comes around. Hang in there and show her what shes missing out on. You will be rewarded one day for doing whats right.