Oh sweetie, thank you, but that's not it. I don't think it is that he's afraid of missing anything as it is just the poing of not talking to me. I think in the beginning of our M, he didn't know what to say, and instead of politely telling me that, he just stared at the TV. He was his escape or excuse or crutch whatever you want to call it. I call it his cop-out. Even though he isn't as rude as he used to be since I got so ugly with him and told him that he would never dream of treating a stranger that way, and that I was going to start showing him how it felt by ignoring him and he said, "Oh, I don't do that to you every time!" I answered, "Ok then, I'll just ignore you part of the time, then." Anyway, ever since then, he has been a little better and just does it part of the time....lol. But, here lately, he seems to be falling back into those older habits. What did I start out to say? lol......oh yes, well, that was it, I feel that I am interupting him whenever I want to say anything to him and he can't drag his eyes away from the TV screen long enough to look at me.
But thanks for thinking of me anyway. I appreciate it. You and Lou have been so sweet to stick by me through my bad days and better days. Unlike some that I have given a hard time to, you all keep coming back for more....lol.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
