Yep, im in the same boat. As soon as you think you are getting somewhere and doing ok, some other guy comes a long.It hurts like hell, but you know what he is after. Think he wants to take on your 2 kids? grief of a good husband and dad trying to work on a marriage? nope, he wants his oats and run. Hurts us like hell, but gonna hurt wife more knowing she was used. I just take pleasure in the fact that what goes around comes around. My W is same age as yours. Its MLC. They think they missed out, the grass is greener.

Well the grass is greener because there is a load of sh*t under it.
It destroys us, but we will be ok quicker than them. One day you will be able to smile.

sorry if i sound angry but they kick us when we are down. gotta jump up and say no more (inside of us)

me 34, wife 32 , daughter 5 . married 8 years , together 10.
Bomb dropped 9th april 07. she moved out 9 days later.....