Soul_mate,

Thanks for your insight, it is appreciated. I ended up txt'ing her today while waiting in the Dr.'s office. Nothing serious, just making fun of the other people in the waiting room. She responded immediately. We joked back and forth. I ended the txt'ing by telling her that I had to go. She responded: "Okay, bye bye." That seems insignificant but that is the way she says good bye when she is happy. I could always tell whens she was not happy when we were on the phone b/c she would just say, "bye." (an inside thing between us, she also referenced inside jokes that we had). I am still unsure as to her motives, but I will see where it goes. I have no expectations and thus should not be overly dissappointed if she is just bored, feeling guilt or whatever. I am GAL big time. I have been on dates with other women, nothing serious, just proving to myself that I can still get out there. I love my W and would do anything to be with her but as it stands right now, we are no longer married and I refuse to show her any neediness. I am a prize and someone will surely recognize this if not my W. I would love to hear more opinions, they really help.


dazed