Hey Sage, It's just me again. Thanks for your response. I responded on my thread. I wrote a huge letter, but I cut most of it, the defensive stuff, the accusatory stuff and left in the positive things I've been seeing and my hopes for the future plus the fact that I'm letting all the stuff about ff go and be part of the past. I can't help but hope that he would see how different her actions are from her words, but time will tell. In the meantime, thinking about her is eating me up and I need to stop. In the revised letter, I also included a letter I never gave him regarding my needs as outlined in DR. It is a positive and hopefully helpful letter designed to move us forward, not keep us entrenched in the past. If you have strong feelings against that, let me know before 6:00 or it;ll be too late! Thanks for the advice, Erin
"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."
-George Bernard Shaw
