Jar, I know exactly what you mean. They change so much. They go against every belief they have had in the past. I think this is pretty typical. All you can do is vent on here and don't worry about trying to change her. It has to be her decision we know that.
It is unfortunate that she is exposing your DDs to the smoke. This is one thing you may want to discuss in a calm manner that you are worried about the second hand smoke effects and your DDs.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
