Sage, I can't speak for your H, but for mine (and he is very perceptive for a guy, heck for a human being), it helps him when I let him know that other stuff is bothering me.
We needn't get all weak and freaky and obsessive...but just a heads up so they're not thinking the worst themselves...like "Oh no, Sage must be doubting me again...she looks sad..."
Wouldn't it be better to say "Oh hon, I'm a little off my game today, stuff from work, but I'll try to blow it off..."
