ditto what whatisis.
Yes, it is time to go to C and very soon. Just look one up and tell her that it would be good if you both have a mediator and someone to let you guys have an open discussion.

Piecing is hard business and there will be many ups and down, one step forward and two steps back.
Welcome)))))))))))) \:\)

A good piecing book that you guys could read is "healing the hurt of your marriage"

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.