Okay Sage, could your H maybe give mine a few tips on Romance?

He made most of dinner tonight, very good too. Lit candles, poured the wine, but then asked me what I WANT for my birthday . How about something nice I don't know about and don't have to ask for???

Oh well.

Glad you're getting better at stopping those unhealthy thoughts of yours. Really I cannot IMAGINE your H doing all of these wonderful things for you while still involved in ANY way with the OW.

When my H was secretly still in contact, he did nothing of the sort, I could tell he wasn't "all here" for me. Your H seems to be pulling out all the stops. Great news about the Law school acceptance!

Shiny