Well - busy for one. Ever since back to school hit with 4 kids in school from 6th grade down to K - talk about busy! Luckily we did some organizing so I have places for all of the papers that come home every day. But it isn't easy. XW currently only has the children overnight Tue during the week, so everynight is full of getting homework done, packing lunches, getting backpacks ready, etc.
I am looking forward to the holidays as I am sure you are. I am trying to get back to getting some stuff crossed off my to do list. One of them is getting back here to check in on my DB friends whom I miss.
Perhaps I will post some updated pics on myspace soon. I haven't done that in a while. Got to clean the garage first.....
I am doing good. Stressed out with my 12 year old. He is being mouthy and not doing what I tell him to do. Took it out on ex h a little the other night and was crying. He was nice enough about it and said he will do whatever he needs too. Just stressed I guess.
For the most part I am doing GREAT!!!!
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
He is just searching for some stability. Set some boundries and don't let him break them, nor you. He needs to know you are in charge, it makes them feel safe.
Some now that you have been in the new house a while, what do you think? Is the house becoming home? I hope it is for the boys and your sakes.
Here's to a good day. Cheers!
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
I am doing good. Stressed out with my 12 year old. He is being mouthy and not doing what I tell him to do.
My nearly 12 year old D is the same. She is doing better now, but man does she have a mouth on her! She is nearly 5'6" now and has gotten in my 6'2" face a couple of times. I am dealing with it okay, but it is not easy sometimes.
As I said, she is doing so much better now than before. But this D garbage does affect them - more than our WAS/Xs will ever admit to.
Hang in there. Perhaps you will have it a bit easier because they are boys? My oldest three are girls....
I am loving the new house and so are the boys. It is home now. We like it even better then our old house.
Coming down with an awful cold here...can barely talk.
Much Love
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
Yes it is going around! Came home early today and took a nap. Going to bed here real quick. Do you have a thread?! I am gonna look for it :-) Hope you feel better!
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
Hi Christy! I was cruising around and saw your thread. Sounds like things are good despite feeling sick. Feel better!
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
