I know you said you are done, but remember to look at the fact that this OW appears to be doing ANYTHING & EVERYTHING to keep you two apart and to end your M. WHAT A SKAG!! Seriously. Do take your time to think about some things. I'd be ready to blow too.
I do have you in my thoughts!!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day