Okay, so I just sent my W a text message asking her not to use the joint acct unless she puts money in first because I just paid rent and it drained the acct. She called me and started to yell at me saying "I always put money in the acct. when I ust it" I told her what I did and that there is hardly no money in the acct and I just wanted to let her know. She calmed down...and stated that she had plans this weekend and wasnt coming home.....so no "talk". She said that she wasnt coming home until probably about Dec...She probably wont go to Denver either... I told her that I am moving on with my life but I wanted to know what I did wrong or what I can do better to make the next person happy.