hmmm, can your psychiatrist give you a written evaluation? I'm sure he won't mind. And even then your H might not believe it, because it doesn't agree with his thoughts. GO anyways, to the MC, you need to talk to a C pronto, your H is very toxic right now and you are very vulnerable.
I took his "conditions" email and replied stating that this sounds like a business agreement, ===================== and that is putting it mildly! you were very classy bu answering that way, I give you credit, most women would've told him he could cram those conditions where the sun don't shine.
He sounds so controlling, perhaps this separation IS for the best, for you to find what you really want and deserve in your M. Stay strong.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.