So glad you are here -- I join in welcoming you. Also -- good going on the high score. How'd you manage to study with so much on your mind?
Awesome thread you got going. I love your candidness, too. I'm not sure I read your rant, but I'm getting a lot out of everything you've posted over here.
Oh I so relate about assuming.
I had an attack yesterday of assuming he was out with the o-chick because he wasn't home when I got in -- they must be laughing at how gullible I've been while they eat Thai food and diss me --
And when my H came home with Thai food it confirmed he'd dined with her! So I acted all nervous and suspicious, which made him set his jaw -- which caused me to accuse him, at which he got defensive ... and we had a lot to untangle.
But it turned out to be just a case of ... Itchy Butt!
He served us both, he was starving, he was late cuz of the rain -- "No I did not have dinner with her, I'm having dinner with you..."
So now whenever I worry he's got the OW on his mind, I'm going to assume instead it's a case of
Itchy Butt
and I betcha I'll get the giggles!
(Amounts to the same thing, anyway, dontcha think?)
Anyway, rambling a little, but want you to know I'm following your thread. Kudos for all your good work.