Hi Saffie & hal, I know what you are both saying and I know you are right. I just feel so very depressed right now that I'm having difficulty lifting myself. Saffie, my H doesn't know everything that I feel worried and sad about. I haven't told him. I am keeping it to myself. I'm really having trouble with believing him, that he wants to come home and that he's not doing anything he shouldn't be. I really just feel so much pain right now.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
I'm done. I can't do this anymore. He's been lyging to me all along just to get the money.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
I saw the emails he has been sending to her secretly. I'm going to wait 48 hours. emotionally I feel destroyed. Let him have her. I don't want him.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
I'm so very sorry. Yes, wait that 48 hours. Is there any possible way that he's telling her this because he doesn't know how to end things? Was he intending on moving home?
I know how you feel. I'm sorry. I'm just trying to see any other possible reason for this. How did you get into his email?
((((HUGS)))) to you and your kids.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
You have achieved a lot already, try to focus on your achievements. I know there are days when it's very hard to be rational and distant.
Do you think you'd feel better if you expressed yourself to your husband? I believe you can do it without looking like a chase. I have also received this advice and it helped me because my H reasoned with me.
I didn't get into his email. SHE was kind enough to forward to me.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
I know you said you are done, but remember to look at the fact that this OW appears to be doing ANYTHING & EVERYTHING to keep you two apart and to end your M. WHAT A SKAG!! Seriously. Do take your time to think about some things. I'd be ready to blow too.
I do have you in my thoughts!!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
