mk, nice that you have the compassion still that you can recognize some of the stuff that was hard for h to deal with.
I remember that ep of gilmore girls...omg, so funny. I swear I will always see your mom as lane's mom in many ways. there is just something in her that probably blocks her from saying these things to you. you are right, her mom probably did the same. your job is to break the cycle with your own kids. I'm doing much of the same with mine...break certain patterns that my mom does, that I'm sure her mom did, etc.
as to whether to date or not, well, I think you'll know when you are ready. hope if you do, you come on to share. I wonder when I will be? hmmmm...what will that first date be like? what will the guy be like...hmmmm.....for now at least, eye candy is nice. I wonder if cute running guy will be at the gym tonight? hmmmmmmm.....
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"