Again, you've hit what I really meant to say.

I'm not trying to get him to give up his pseudo-single lifestyle. Really, I'm not ready to move that far ahead, myself. I just don't want him to be sleeping with/heavily emotionally involved with someone else while he is doing the same things with me. I don't even care if he still hangs out with his friends...I'm not even asking him to stop being around JD...

I just feel totally grossed out by the idea of us being physical while he's sending her cutesy messages and possibly planning an R with her. (Not necessarily that he wants an R with her, just that he'd be so close to me while doing it.)


Azhira

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