quickie comment, dont have time to read more:

i think you were focused on, at the beginning, "we've bveen acting like married people so treat me like one".

instead i might suggest you saying, "we've been acting like GOOD pmarried people... hasnt it been nice? how about continuing to act like that together. not neccessarilyt with permemant commitment, but at least exclusive commitment"


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle